Friendship between the man and the woman: what is it?

Many men believe such relations a myth - because practically to all women test sexual draught of different strength. Whether it however means, what the friendship between the man and the woman really does not happen? Or can, it simply differs from unisex friendship?
There is such science - psychology of relations. It considers various forms of human relations, including most for us interesting - sexual.

Any relations between the man and the woman at whom the floor of the partner in relations matters are called as sexual. That is, even business relations can be sexual if the perception of the person as the worker or the chief mixes up with its perception as the carrier of the floor, i.e. the man or the woman. Actually, it is the most widespread form of business relations between the man and the woman. Thus partners in the given form of sexual relations hardly sleep or seriously are going to oversleep with each other.

From the point of view of this science, the friendship between the man and the woman is one of the youngest forms of sexual relations. Its history - a theme for separate article, we will consider its essence.

At first let's recollect, in what the unisex friendship is expressed.

• Friends communicate with each other because they have general interests. Interestingly same or to it it is interesting to them to do something together: to collect marks, to discuss serials, to fight on wooden swords, etc.
• Friends trust each other. They are not afraid to seem each other «not in that suit» because know that one will not start to humiliate another. They do not write down to themselves in notebooks or memory the rolls bought each other or beer.
• Friends do not consider one another "obliged".They do not suit rows if one suits a party or shish kebabs, and another says that cannot or does not wish to go on it. Or if one has told to another that cannot help in something. Should and want - the right which one friend recognises behind another.
• Friends do not envy each other.The success of one does not become misfortune of another. Moreover, usually friends sincerely rejoice to successes each other.
• Friends feel communication.They cannot explain the nature of this communication, but it that our ancestors named a word "bonds". This communication is related both family, and to matrimonial bonds, but nevertheless differs from them.
• Friends - a separate life.The enamoured plan the life with caution against each other and counting on "compatibility". Friends live in itself. It does not mean that they cannot agree about something.
• Friends communicate regularly. Only constant dialogue supports their communication. Otherwise it, alas, disappears.
  

Such is classical, unisex friendship. The same is characteristic and for friendship of the man and the woman, with one additional condition: one of them or both want another, but for any reasons are not going to have sex. Something it is similar to Platonic love …

How it arises?
Writer S.Chekmaev in the book "Vezuha" notices that when the man and the woman precisely know that between them will be nothing, their relations become in an especial way confidential.
That is, intersexual friendship as the form of sexual relations, arises in case the man has wanted any woman, has understood that to it "does not shine", but it has appeared so is interested by it also as the person that has decided to take pleasure in usual dialogue with it. Gradually communication in this dialogue gets stronger, and there is a friendship with all its attributes, including «the friend always will help».

Why the man appears the active party?
The matter is that the majority of women are predisposed to извлеканию pleasures from all forms of dialogue, and consequently pleasure from dialogue with the man as the person for them a commonplace. Men are less adjusted on difficult forms social, including sexual relations; able to receive from them pleasure it is not enough. As for creation of high-grade relations participation of both parties the woman should wait passively is necessary, whether will be in an environment of the man with the quality described above.

The main thing, that the parties understood what to feel an attraction to each other - does not mean to be incapable of friendship. It no more, than natural reaction of an organism, a component distinguishing intersexual friendship from the unisex.

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