There can be a virtual love the present feeling?

You never fell in love through the Internet? Very fascinating employment. And never tested disappointments from discrepancy of a virtual subject of adoration and a severe reality? Try — such experience is remembered on all life. Or becomes your destiny.


These questions are actual. Pages of the majority of sites cry out about the desire literally to help you to find the significant other. «For whom you search? How many years? What qualities?» – from bright headings eyes are ill.



Sceptics doubt: and whether the feeling on distance can flash? Here so it is simple – through the monitor screen, whence the glossy photo smiles to you? At the answer it is possible to refer to an old kind song: «and not, that yes, and not that is not present». In a word, there are variants.


But rather fatal meetings occur not on sites of acquaintances, and in chats, dispatches, at forums. Have exchanged several phrases, photos, letters – and it is ready. It seems, the love has come! Whether this is valid big and – time and weight of tests to which the enamoured will undergo will show a pure feeling.

If good luck has smiled to you the pleasant person can appear yours the neighbour. But it is too boring. It is much more interesting, when the liking is found on other end of the world. And here all those barriers which should be overcome on a difficult way of transformation of virtual love to real feeling come into force.

Midnight conversations on ICQ and скайпу – only the first stage in development of your relations. And to tighten it too long it is not recommended. Dynamics is necessary, especially in a situation, when you – in Moscow, and your warm friend – in Vladivostok. The first phone calls on city or mobile, SMS correspondence – an unessential element, but anyhow all the same arising when enough close connections are fastened.

Flowers, gifts too are not excluded. Progress has stepped far forward. Internet shops offer the broadest spectrum of services of which it is possible to take advantage, without leaving the house. So remember it and do not stint «charming trifles». To receive them it is so pleasant, as well as to give.

The most quivering instant — a meeting. Your further happiness will depend on the impression made in this instant. You already heard a voice each other, know by heart biographies, to dizziness have seen enough of images. However many people in a network look more attractively, being covered with a mask of an ideal image. They are sociable, cheerful, witty. And actually — are unfortunate and lonely.

The main thing not to do hasty conclusions. At the moment of true the relative disappointment will comprehend both. The photo can be modified; a voice – to play; style of the letter – to borrow. The Internet – the big scene on which there is an eternal performance, and we play in it the roles taken away to us.

Look narrowly to each other more attentively. Glance in eyes. Somewhere there – at the bottom – all the same there lives that person whom you have grown fond for the qualities shown at virtual dialogue. Only this helpless being is afraid of grey everyday life. However, caress, care and attention truly work wonders. Slightly patience, and the feeling which has come because of a side of a reality, becomes the presents. Be not afraid to put to it of a few efforts. But do not spend them too generously. It is required to you much more courage and will power to save up that, the owner of that you just became.

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What is the MAN obliged to speak to the woman?

Each woman would like to hear these phrases. They, probably therefore and are valuable, what not so are often said by men to women, as though it would be desirable it women. Some women are ready to marry, if only to hear these phrases.

Here they.
1. «I love you». Three times a day, to, during time and after meal. It is obligatory also to discussion is not subject. Plus before work and after work. Moreover and it is simple so, without cause.

2. «The sun, you at me such beautiful». If you tell a phrase №1, means, a phrase №2 – the truth. So what for to hide the truth? As they say, the frank recognition facilitates understanding. How you think, for what the woman does эпиляцию, depilation, pulls out eyebrows, exhausts itself with diets and lays down under a knife of the cosmetic surgeon? All to hear these words. Therefore do not stint them, you will not grow poor.

3. «You have prepared such tasty soup, never so it was impossible to my mum». You encourage with this phrase the wife to prepare and be improved in culinary art. If you have devoured all meal which the wife prepared for you three hours for 10 minutes, and have not estimated properly its diligence, you risk more than anything in this life, except noodles of fast preparation, and not to try.

4. «You at me are the best». This phrase promotes improvement of the relation of the woman to the man. Anyhow, time it is the best, she will and care of you best.

5. «You will be such good mum» or «You such remarkable mum for our children». Each woman wishes to become mother, and good mother, and to realise the parent instinct. The recognition of its parent qualities the man whom she loves it is important for the woman.

6. «You at me such clever». To the woman, however, as well as the man, it is always pleasant, when highly appreciate its mental faculties. It that, is simple so has finished two universities, has learnt three languages, has received a driving licence from the first and has defended the dissertation? So, do not stint words.

7. «You were right». The woman often happens the rights, and even more often the man all does in own way and does not recognise correctness of the woman, even when it is obvious. For this reason for the woman so these recognitions are important. She does not ask to recognise that the man is not right, she asks to recognise that it is right. Same not so it is difficult, as it seems at first sight.

8. «You my treasure! One more, such as you not to find». It is pleasant to woman to know that it unique, exclusive, irreplaceable, necessary and unique for the man.

9. «Well, as I could live without you». Means, and the further life is inconceivable without it. Means, you really love it, because to you without it, as without water.

10. «Today saw the wife of the friend, it so has started herself, not that you at me». To the woman it is always pleasant, when she wins in comparison with other woman. This usual female rivalry. Let it works for your blessing.

Phrases №11, 12, 13, 14 and 15 recollect. And that wanted all on a saucer with blue каемочкой! There is nothing to relax. These phrases should be a fruit of your individual creativity taking into account specific features of your beloved.

Women love ears. Remember it. If the woman hears these phrases from you, she will think, what you at it loving, attentive, kind, gentle, clever etc. Time you at it such good, to it and in a head will not come to search for someone another to replace you.
And now the instruction for men. Unpack this article in triplicate. One copy leave to itself, and two others – present to friends. And let they will make the same.

The instruction for women. Unpack this article in triplicate. One copy place in a frame and, it is imperceptible so, hang up on a wall in such place that to the husband of an eye made callous. Other two copies present to girlfriends. Let they will make the same.

Good luck to you, also love each other!

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What dangers are concealed in itself by the first love?

Who from us did not test in the life special experiences concerning the first love when at the sight of the originator of our experiences grasped spirit, feet gave away, hands and a forehead sweated. When it would be desirable to see, hear and be constantly near to object of our lamentations. A bad dream, appetite and mood if there was no reciprocity and on the contrary – the cheerful mood, the raised work capacity and desire of all to embrace and kiss if these feelings found the response at the favourite person.

From the point of view of the psychology, the first love is first present personal test for the person. How the person will worry the period of the first love, definitive "completion" of its person depends. The matter is that each of us lives in a society in which living conditions and behaviour in a society are stipulated, we would not be in what quality. The child knows as it to behave, the student knows, on what its progress depends, adults know that it is necessary to do, that the family was as it should be. And here at the first love, you should solve how to arrive, you to yourself both the student and the examiner. Here there are no registered rules, anybody did not learn to it, and it is impossible to register rules for enamoured as the first love sets to the person absolutely free scale of its person. Here you not so successful pupil, not the careful father, not a good companion or the attentive husband, here you reveal in the relation to other person – such what you are.

Having this feeling, nobody thinks of what apartment at the elect, what its status in a society, it goes by what car, whether there is a summer residence and whether parents are rich. It at the first love excites nobody. This feeling romantic, light and the purest. And it is necessary to concern this feeling very seriously as, I will repeat, this serious test for the person which can not only break all plans, but also break the most enamoured. To break it internally.

But that the most interesting in it, it that the present first love is a rarity. Present, instead of that was with all of us in a kindergarten, at school or institute. Among us it is a lot of those who did not worry the present first love, but there are also those who could not stop loving that girl or that boy from the remote past.

Psychologists consider that the first love should be finished. After it is possible to recollect it and it is necessary to recollect – either with a smile, or with light grief as it is pleasant to whom, but to grieve for it, and furthermore to come back to former relations is means to doom itself to an intolerable pain.

Yes, it is possible to recollect all life the first love, to grieve for it, then to meet – and to feel huge disappointment behind which the simplification, as you different people will come, you any more those young young man and the girl and such you already never will be. But at times, if to grieve about the first love and casually to meet her in the street – it is possible to steep again in this feeling and to forget about all on light. Such enamoured leave the families, children and enjoy what so thirsted for all these years. The families, the crippled destinies as a result break up, children remain without parents. Also what as a result? There comes an enlightenment more often - in due course and the person comes back from a fairy tale in a reality, realising that that has left, it is impossible to return, pulls in a family, starts to torment conscience, a sense of guilt.
Understand: the first love is an irrational, psychological event. But not the vital. It is impossible to enter twice into the same river. Going on a meeting with the first love, we perceive it in advance as 16-20 the girl, or the young man. But as a result – before us absolutely other person who can strongly lose to our present partner in life.

What promotes "jamming" on the first love? One of factors – unsuccessful marriage. To regret for the missed possibilities the person who does not receive to the full in what requires now the life can. The imagination thus joins and the person draws to itself a picture in which he with the first love lives long and happily.

The second factor – structure of the person which is inclined to bifurcation of feelings. On the one hand there is a love to the present spouse, and in a head any possible variants are scrolled. Here again, if possibility, and furthermore that which is connected with such strong feelings the person not in forces to resist is given.

The third factor is it is peculiar to people with нарциссическими bents which very much love itself. The self-ecstasy, admiration of self does not allow to forget about that time when there was so much admiration, so much pleasant and gentle words have been told from outside favourite. But the most important factor are people, a special category of people for whom psychologically there is no time – neither the present, nor the future, the past any, except time "always". These people perceive everything that occurred, the relation and people, as a part of the life now in spite of the fact that has taken place a lot of time that circumstances have changed what to return anything it is impossible. For them – the first love – mine and only mine. And not simply was when that, and is and always will be.

But the most terrible happens not when people jam on the first love and when they had no this feeling at young age. And here, having lived till forty years and more, they fall in love for the first time. It is accident, in spite of the fact that love – fine feeling which bears in itself so much positive emotions and creative effect. All the matter is that by this time, as a rule, at people it was already died, there are families, work, everything that is necessary for a happy life. And suddenly … the feeling which all changes comes, all overturns in a life upside down. And already without it is other, favourite person a life it is not meaningful. In it danger of overdue love. The first love which does not ask when to it to appear, but comes when to it will take in head and always finds us unprepared. And behaviour rules at the first love are not registered anywhere. Here also it is necessary to maintain it, probably, the first serious test of the person most, relying any more on experience and reason, and on those feelings, to constrain which not in forces.

I wish all to stand in similar tests both to leave with honour and to remain with love. With the first love and for ever.

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Who it, the woman at the wheel?

Surprisingly, but men are ready for the sake of a car and their proprietresses on the big feats. Can even wash with own hand the car in the winter cold water. Or even, it is terrible to think, pump up all four wheels. If to reject romanticism, it is possible to assume that all it becomes as less as possible to suppose the woman to the car. Because the car for the man is sacred. "I saw recently such terrible picture on road that hair rise on end!" - my acquaintance (I already imagine accident, the blood-stained corpses, the torn off hands-feet etc.) speaks - "Represent, a BMW-three, all scratched by a nail!!!"

The attention of men to you is provided since you start to visit driving school, and so long, how much you intend to remain in the ranks of motorists. Numerous friends-admirers you we will get already in the course of training. First, those who wrote off at you on control, and in some years after a passing examinations at a meeting will be joyfully interested, as your machine runs, and so with enthusiasm to tell about the. Secondly, you will have at once voluntary instructors from among the lucky beggars already having the rights, and will suggest you to learn to drive on their car. Considering, AS beginners drive, such act can be equated to a feat. But practice shows that feats are made. And it is regular.

Further - it is more. The help on parking and refuellings if you get to snow drift in the winter will be offered you, necessarily there will be somebody who from it will pull out you. A sphere of action of the citizen at the wheel удесятеряется as in a car it is unessential to it to have a jack, запаску, tools - to it all will give in process of requirement occurrence. The woman, unlike the muzhik, does not vote on road hours - cars stop near it instantly. That, many women take such advantages, and some prefer to boss a jack if only not to see fleers.

The French magazine "Vi a modernist style" has organised among women questionnaire on a theme, what their sensations when the car is conducted by the husband. The basic question consisted in finding out, whether reliably it operates the car as they, men, sit on so-called forward "a seat of the condemned man" and bear responsibility for the children.

On a question, whether test women a sensation of fear when the husband at the wheel sits, 57 % interrogated without hesitation have answered in the affirmative and have added that it first of all fear before too fast and careless driving. Besides, the husband at the wheel starts to be irritated and operates with the nervousness on all sitting in the car. 34 % of wives have specified that their husbands behave in relation to other drivers aggressively, especially, if those disturb it quickly and with pleasure to make overtaking.

Whether there go women worse, than men? The statistics shows that in relation to quantity of the given out driving licence of the woman though have more than small failures and infringements, but on their account much less serious road accidents. Also has put at all that simply is less than women on roads as to me can object. The percentage parity speaks about the same.

Experience of trials with Office of Public Prosecutor testifies that on each 240 road incidents for health only one occurs to a serious damage because of the woman. Under other data, women are at the bottom of incidents with a deadly outcome only in 3 % of cases.

Considerably smaller any number of road and transport incidents at women-drivers occurs because of alcoholic intoxication. Thereupon it is possible to find out one rather interesting dependence. Annually in Czechia the increase in number of road accident because of the drivers who are in a drunken state, in days of holidays of Vaclav, Joseph, Charles and other favourite Czech patrons is marked. But thus it was never observed increases of number of incidents because of drunk women for Anna, Maria's holidays or on the International women's day.
Despite these indisputable and incontestable facts, superstition of the XXI-st century continues to insist that the stolen a march black cat and the woman at the wheel foretell failure.

Actually all is much easier. Women go not worse, and it is simply a little differently. At them slightly other style of driving. Experts consider that men make the majority of failures because of imprudence, revaluations of the abilities and possibilities of the car or non-observance of rules of traffic. Thus at women the reasons of incidents are excessive care, excessive scrupulousness, underestimation of the abilities and insufficient experience more often. Sometimes and the excessive fear forces the woman to press the grown dumb foot on a brake during the moment when abundantly clear that only the increase in speed can help to avoid road accident.

This theme excites recently almost all. Women, aspiring to full independence, even more often get into the car and receive from it huge pleasure. Men, whose slogan is «the woman – the friend of the person», run into a hysterics. And what you think about it?

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Friendship between the man and the woman: what is it?

Many men believe such relations a myth - because practically to all women test sexual draught of different strength. Whether it however means, what the friendship between the man and the woman really does not happen? Or can, it simply differs from unisex friendship?
There is such science - psychology of relations. It considers various forms of human relations, including most for us interesting - sexual.

Any relations between the man and the woman at whom the floor of the partner in relations matters are called as sexual. That is, even business relations can be sexual if the perception of the person as the worker or the chief mixes up with its perception as the carrier of the floor, i.e. the man or the woman. Actually, it is the most widespread form of business relations between the man and the woman. Thus partners in the given form of sexual relations hardly sleep or seriously are going to oversleep with each other.

From the point of view of this science, the friendship between the man and the woman is one of the youngest forms of sexual relations. Its history - a theme for separate article, we will consider its essence.

At first let's recollect, in what the unisex friendship is expressed.

• Friends communicate with each other because they have general interests. Interestingly same or to it it is interesting to them to do something together: to collect marks, to discuss serials, to fight on wooden swords, etc.
• Friends trust each other. They are not afraid to seem each other «not in that suit» because know that one will not start to humiliate another. They do not write down to themselves in notebooks or memory the rolls bought each other or beer.
• Friends do not consider one another "obliged".They do not suit rows if one suits a party or shish kebabs, and another says that cannot or does not wish to go on it. Or if one has told to another that cannot help in something. Should and want - the right which one friend recognises behind another.
• Friends do not envy each other.The success of one does not become misfortune of another. Moreover, usually friends sincerely rejoice to successes each other.
• Friends feel communication.They cannot explain the nature of this communication, but it that our ancestors named a word "bonds". This communication is related both family, and to matrimonial bonds, but nevertheless differs from them.
• Friends - a separate life.The enamoured plan the life with caution against each other and counting on "compatibility". Friends live in itself. It does not mean that they cannot agree about something.
• Friends communicate regularly. Only constant dialogue supports their communication. Otherwise it, alas, disappears.
  

Such is classical, unisex friendship. The same is characteristic and for friendship of the man and the woman, with one additional condition: one of them or both want another, but for any reasons are not going to have sex. Something it is similar to Platonic love …

How it arises?
Writer S.Chekmaev in the book "Vezuha" notices that when the man and the woman precisely know that between them will be nothing, their relations become in an especial way confidential.
That is, intersexual friendship as the form of sexual relations, arises in case the man has wanted any woman, has understood that to it "does not shine", but it has appeared so is interested by it also as the person that has decided to take pleasure in usual dialogue with it. Gradually communication in this dialogue gets stronger, and there is a friendship with all its attributes, including «the friend always will help».

Why the man appears the active party?
The matter is that the majority of women are predisposed to извлеканию pleasures from all forms of dialogue, and consequently pleasure from dialogue with the man as the person for them a commonplace. Men are less adjusted on difficult forms social, including sexual relations; able to receive from them pleasure it is not enough. As for creation of high-grade relations participation of both parties the woman should wait passively is necessary, whether will be in an environment of the man with the quality described above.

The main thing, that the parties understood what to feel an attraction to each other - does not mean to be incapable of friendship. It no more, than natural reaction of an organism, a component distinguishing intersexual friendship from the unisex.

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